??xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?>
人生像龟兔赛跑。一开始领先不代表你会一直领先。同P一开始落后不代表你会一直落后。但是如果你下不了决心,不可能努力,没有自制力,没毅力的话,你肯定不会领先的?br>
乐观Q开朗,U极的态度。好长时间没有体会到领先带给我的乐趣了;好长旉没有体会到学习技术带l我的快乐了。该重新归队Q好好学习,好好工作了?br>
废话不多_开工?img height=20 src="http://www.shnenglu.com/Emoticons/QQ/12.gif" width=20 border=0>
]]>
]]>
]]>
The same thing happens in life. We set goals and make plans - and sometimes discover that we're on "the wrong train."
Bi-vinat ha-lave literally means "understanding the heart." The heart is the seat of emotions. We say: "My heart is heavy, my heart is lifted, my heart is broken," etc. To understand your heart is to understand your true inner self.
Many people go through life making assumptions about who they are. They never take time to "meet" themselves. Don't be afraid of discovering that the "real you" may be different than the "current you."
Often a crisis hits at midlife when people ask: "What's my life about? Is this all worth it?" We've heard stories of people who suddenly change direction, quitting their job and getting divorced. You know, like the successful doctor who decides he never wanted to go into medicine in the first place -- so he drops it and becomes an artist.
Knowing yourself is the essence of being alive. If you don't know yourself, you are not living. If you don't know what makes you tick, you're a robot, a puppet, a zombie.
So don't wait for a crisis. Life is too short to take wrong trains.
GETTING STARTED
Think of someone you'd be fascinated to meet, someone you'd really like to find out what makes him tick.
Now realize the most fascinating person you could ever meet is ... yourself.
Sit down, say hello, and introduce yourself to yourself. Become familiar with yourself as if you'd just met a long-lost cousin. Interview yourself. Ask questions about your life and the direction you're going. Search out your dreams -- both the ones you're fulfilling and the ones you've pushed to the back of your mind.
Get down to basics. You want to be rich. You want to be famous. You want to be good. You want to accomplish. You want meaning. You want to be creative. But why do you want all this? What's driving you? What you really want out of life?
The process of self-discovery involves asking a series of questions, always probing deeper until the underlying truth emerges. Ask yourself 10 questions that you would ask an intimate friend. Then wait for answers. Don't worry, no one is going to poke fun at you.
Don't be surprised if the answers aren't immediate. This process can take many months. Stick with it and find out what makes you tick. The answers are hiding in there. After all, you have a fascinating partner.
Finally, the most important question to ask is:
"What am I living for?"
It sounds like a simple question, but many are embarrassed to ask it. A voice inside us says, "Nah, why ask such a basic question?" We're resistant because we know this requires a lot of difficult soul-searching. And when you thoroughly know yourself, then you have changed. You've changed your relationship with yourself and the world.
CONFIDENCE IN DECISION-MAKING
People often avoid making decisions out of fear of making a mistake.
Actually, the failure to make decisions is one of life's biggest mistakes.
Imagine the beggar who receives a letter saying that he's inherited a million dollars. If he doesn't read the letter, is he rich ... or not?
Similarly, God gave us the free will to make choices in life and achieve greatness. But if we're not aware of our free will, then we don't really have it. And then we wind up blaming others when things go wrong -- even though we know the decision is really up to us.
If you're not using your potential, it wears away at your confidence. Do you know what your potential is? Have you tried to use it? You have to tackle life. You haven't given up yet, have you? Let's get on with the game, with the business of really living, of not just "going through the motions."
Know the difference between "making decisions" and just floating, falling into place. Did you choose to go to college? Or perhaps you had nothing to do with the decision. Was it something you just did because you graduated high school and everybody else was doing it? Did you think it through and actually make a decision?
Imagine this private conversation of a college student:
Why am I going to college?
To get a degree.
Why?
Because I want to get into a good graduate school.
Why?
So I'll get a good job.
Why?
So I can pay back my college loans!
Through the process of questioning, he reveals a logical fault in his motivation. Really, the primary reason for going to college should be to acquire wisdom, knowledge and information. In other words, to get an education!
Now try the process yourself, using this example:
Why do I want to get married?
Don't accept pat answers. Keep asking "Why, why why?" Be frank. It's yourself. Ask any question you like. Be patient and persistent. Eventually you'll get an answer.
When you thoroughly analyze an issue, then you can make wise decisions with confidence.
Identify where you lack confidence. What makes you nervous? What situations inhibit you from being yourself? Why can't you make decisions? Is it that you don't know how to make decisions? Or that you doubt your decisions after they're made? Or you just don't feel like making decisions?
Enjoy making decisions. Deal with the world you live in. That's loving the dynamics of life.
ISOLATE YOUR BLOCKS
Anytime you find it difficult to achieve a goal, figure out what's holding you back.
Everyone has problems. Being aware of these problems is the key to getting in touch with yourself. Because as long as you don't face problems, they fester and bug you from behind.
Write your "blocks" on a piece of paper. That's a good step in the right direction. By isolating specific obstacles, you turn them into concrete challenges that require solutions.
Ask yourself:
Negative character traits are the roots of our problems. Make a list of your negative traits, and identify when they affect you the most. Then analyze what triggers these reactions in you. Finally, formulate an effective counter-approach.
Working through this takes time. But do you have anything better to be doing right now?
READ YOUR EMOTIONS
Get in touch with your emotional state. Take a reading of how you feel. Happy? Angry? Tense? Sad? Emotions are a measuring stick for what's going on below the surface. It's like taking your temperature. If you're sick, you need to be aware so you can fix the problem.
Find out why you're upset. Who or what is pressuring you? Is it an internal or an external problem? Identify it.
Let's say you are irritated. Why?
Because the boss chewed me out.
So why am I irritated?
Because I resent him.
So what? Why does that bother me?
Because I feel I am no good.
I'm no good? He's nuts!
Get out of yourself and track it down. If you don't, it's just irritation. And the next thing you know, you'll go home and yell at your kids.
Once you've identified what causes negative feelings, adjust yourself to minimize the impact. Either avoid these situations, or prepare yourself to handle them when they arise.
Further, root out negative motivations that corrupt your behavior. Let's say that you give charity. Why? One motivation is to help humanity. Another is the pleasure of being constructive. A third is the desire to do the right thing. These are all positive motivations. A negative motivation for giving charity is: "I want people to admire me." That's corruptive.
The next time you give charity, do so anonymously. Eliminate the wrong reasons. They are destructive.
The same goes with the positive emotions. Be aware of how your emotional state affects decisions. For example, don't buy a new stereo when you're in a euphoric mood. Wait. Think it over. You are susceptible.
Pinpoint what makes you happy. You can have more joy on a daily basis by formulating some practical applications. You got up in the morning, it's a gorgeous day and you feet great. You're energized. Now take that feeling and teach yourself how to get up on the right side -- every day!
Another example: You did a good job and got the boss's compliment. Now focus: Do you need the boss to tell you did a good job? No! Create your own pleasure out of doing a good job.
GET IN TOUCH WITH YOUR TWO SIDES
Everyone has an urge for greatness. We want self respect, power, fame. We want to accomplish, to be strong, to do the right thing, to even save the world.
Yet at the same time, we have a counter-urge to run away from responsibility, to get into bed and crawl under the covers.
Someone may say, "Life is beautiful," but he doesn't feel it. His emotions hold him back and he walks around going, "Ugh, life is a burden."
Recognize the volcano of conflict within you: What you truly "want," versus what you "feel" like. This is the conflict between body and soul.
Once you appreciate the dichotomy, you can identify at any moment whether your body or soul is talking. This makes it possible to live with sanity and choose the right thing.
The next step is to make peace between your two sides. The easiest way is to squash your drive to be great. But life is not about taking the easy way out. Just because you feel uncomfortable about an idea doesn't mean it's wrong for you. It's hard to break habits, and growth can be frightening.
For example, would you rather be happy or rich? Okay, you'd rather be happy. Now imagine this exchange:
"Come on, I'll teach you how to be happy. All it requires is effort and change."
"Oh, I'd love to, but I can't right now. It's impossible. I've got a flight to catch."
"Really? I'll pay you $10,000 a week to work on happiness."
"Sure! Where do I sign up?"
"Oh, but I thought you can't right now..."
We conceal our problems with rationalization: "I'll wreck my mind thinking about what life is about! Nobody really knows what life is about. It's not going to work. Nothing can be done about it anyway. I don't really care. It's not worth the time!"
The Sages say that a person only makes a mistake when overcome by a moment of insanity. So realize that you are fighting "insanity." It is not logical. You've got to be on guard. Because if you get off track, you'll pay for it down the road.
So ... do you want to change? What have you got against it? Feel the antipathy of the body. We are so darn lazy. The body just wants to sleep. "Aaaah ... I don't want to change. I'm happy enough. I'm comfortable in my niche of misery." Are you rich enough? No! So are you happy enough?
You see the importance of tracking that down? You have to identify the animal you are fighting. "The dread of change."
If you're alert, you see the enemy. You can fight it. You may lose a struggle with the body, but at least you have your confidence. "I know what I am doing."
COAX THE BODY
Get in touch with your spiritual core. Know what is driving you. Don't let free will be a subconscious thing. You want greatness. But the body says that's too much effort.
To try to convince the body, try to identify the tangible benefit. "Why is it necessary? What will it do for me?" You have to bring it home to emotional realization. "What do I lose?" What do I gain?" Only then will the idea have power. And you'll get out there and do it.
Here's the secret formula: Identify with your intellect, and coax your heart along. For example, if you're emotionally convinced of the benefit of getting into shape, then even when you break out in a cold sweat and your heart is doing palpitations, you will keep going. Because you have decided, "I want this," you know it is important.
To avoid negative backlash, your emotions have to feel comfortable with the changes you make. Learn to relax and reassure the body. Cajole the body and say, "It won't be so bad. Remember the last time you made an effort, how great you felt!" Be encouraging and reward yourself for success.
Don't say it doesn't work. You haven't made the effort. Don't give up on your intuition and perception. Just realize you haven't yet brought it home to actualization.
Consider how the basic human drives affect you: security, self-respect, honor, passions, social pressure, and possessions. Pay particularly close attention to how you accept responsibility. Let's say that you made a mistake. You want to apologize in a full and forthright manner. Yet you feel like forgetting the whole thing, hiding, running away and saying "it's not my fault."
This is the volcano. We want to be tough, dedicated and powerful -- yet we feel like being marshmallows. Choosing the path of the soul doesn't come naturally. It takes a lot of time and hard work.
KNOW WHAT YOU KNOW
Don't think that just because you understand something, you are living with it. It is possible to believe one way, and yet act another. It happens to us all the time. You can believe it's important to eat healthy food, yet gorge yourself on French fries and chocolate cake.
Our actions are determined by our level of clarity. If we understand an idea on just a superficial level, then we'll have difficulty sticking to it when the going gets tough.
Next time you go to a funeral, watch carefully. When they remove the body from the chapel, the mourners start to cry. Are they crying because they want to body to stay there?! No. All of a sudden there is a realization of death, that he won't be coming back. At the cemetery, they lower the casket into the ground and the mourners cry again. It's the emotional realization that death is final now.
Until you align your feelings with reality, you are in dreamland. Growth begins in the mind, but your heart has to buy into everything your mind discovers. Only then will you integrate these ideas into day-to-day life.
A lot of people believe in God. There are very few people who live with God. Does that make sense? You have to assimilate something that you've accepted as true. It has to become part of you.
FIVE-FINGER CLARITY
You've got to know yourself cold, just like you know your hand has five fingers. How do you know you are on the right path? How do you know you're not making a mistake right now?
To develop this clarity, articulate the important principles that guide your life. For example, in Judaism we say that love is an obligation. Is this reasonable? Work the issue through with yourself:
"Ridiculous. You can't obligate me to love."
"But if I have children, will I love them?"
"Of course I'm going to love my kids!"
"How do I know? I don't know what kind of kids I'm going to have. Maybe they'll be brats and I won't love them."
"I will. I'm obligated to love my children."
Do you see the contradiction? On an intuitive level, you know that love is an obligation. But the concept is not so clear that you can articulate it.
Take your time. Sort out the basic aspects of living. Ask yourself important questions about life's global and spiritual issues.
--?What is the meaning of existence?
--?What's good about living?
--?How do I feel about humanity?
--?What is the afterlife?
--?How do I understand good versus evil?
--?Do I have free will? How do I activate it?
--?What makes me sad? Is it okay to be sad?
--?How do I feel about God?
--?Am I proud to be a Jew?
--?How do I understand the Holocaust?
Some of these topics may be unpleasant to think about. If so, why is it unpleasant? Track it down.
Don't just use slogans to parrot things that you heard. Know why you are doing what you are doing. Otherwise, it's just society talking. You may have adopted part of society without analyzing its validity. Check it out.
Work through all the issues until you have "five-finger clarity." A human being who knows what he wants will get there. By hook or by crook. It's like a homing mechanism on a missile. If you program it right, you will get there.
WHY IS "KNOWING YOURSELF" AN INGREDIENT IN WISDOM?
Software Engineer - New Grad - Beijing
Software Engineer, System - Beijing
软g工程?/span> – 北京 (Software Engineer - Beijing)
Requirements:
以上q些职位要求基本上差不多。ȝ来说Q要求真的不多!可以说只要求到有能力Q比很多的公司招聘限制少多了Q那些公司基本上要求什么都要精通,最好拿来就能用Q这是差距啊。当然了Q要求不多ƈ不是说要求简单,否则的话谁都可以?/span>Google了。真正的好公叔R会注重一个h的能力,潜力。比如,对Y件工E师来说Q编E能力必不可,而且必须得很强才行。以前在|上看到有h_要达?#8220;U杀”的境界!
当然了,Googleq是要求了一些分布式斚w的能力,但这些都只是作ؓ一?/span>plus的。唉Q不知道q辈子有没有Z?/span>Google淘金Q?/span>
不过我想上面说的应该是国外吧Q不知道国内?/span>90q代OO是否风靡啊。偶?/span>21世纪才开始接触电脑的。记得那时候老师在给我们?/span>C++评时候,拼命说什?/span>C++好啊Q面向对象啊Q大说了一通。MQ给我的感觉是,OO才开始风靡。后来,学校里又开了一门课Q叫着面向对象×××什么什么的Q忘了,反正是在讲面向对象。老师也是一个劲的给我们灌输OO思想Q叫我们区别?/span>OO?/span>OP的差别。不知道Z么会有这么一D,可能惌国内的技术比国外的慢太多了。很多时候,其实Q语a也是一U原因!毕竟国内好的译太少了!而且不能L{侯杰大叔叔来翻译啊。记得以前在论坛上看C?#8220;名言”啊:不要看国内作者写的书Q不要看国内译者翻译的书,括弧Q侯杰除外)。看hg有点偏激Q不q却不无道理啊!很多的作者和译者都是垃圑֕Q!Q!偶深受其宻I因ؓ偶很׃书(看书。。。呵呵)。记得我d看重构的时候,我觉得这个名词还是很新的啊,看了那本书之后才发现原来q本书写于上个世U,昏迷啊,国内的技术太落后了。偶?/span>e文也太落后了Q要多关注关注国外的新技术?/span>
扯远了。回来再?/span>OO?/span>
OOQ很早就已经学过了,很早以前׃己懂了,今天H然发现自己q不懂什么是OOQؓ什么要OOQ以前的x可能太简单了一点,认ؓ只要是全都是对象是OO了?/span>
没错Q在OO的思想中,所有一切东襉K?/span>OQ但是,我发现在实际~程中,我连q一炚w无法保证Q而且Q我也无法做到理pd际,把理论应用到实际。在实际q用中,几乎没有考虑q?/span>O的问题。更多的时候是在考虑什么模块怎么划分Q一个模块应该有几个c阿Q每个类都有些什么功能阿。但是我没有把那个类作ؓ一个对象来考虑Q或者说没有把那个类作ؓ一cL象的对象来考虑。需要什么东西就直接往里面加。不加的东西跟那个cL没有关系Q都往里面塞!行ؓ相当恶劣。简直就?/span>OP啊,每个c都成了一l?/span>function?/span>wrapper了,相当悲哀Q不?/span>function是否应该属于该类Q或者说该对象)。搞不好什么时候就设计ZQ一个h有爬的行为!Q结果肯定会被一h狂揍哦)?/span>
OO有什么优点呢Qؓ什么要OOQ?/span>
OO使h们得变成与实际的世界更加接近Q所有的对象被赋予属性和ҎQ结果编E就更加富有人性化?/span>
l护?/span>Q?/span>模块化是面向对象~程中的一个特征。实体被表示为类和同一名字I间中具有相同功能的c,我们可以在名字空间中d一个类而不会媄响该名字I间的其他成员?/span>
可扩充?/span>Q?/span>面向对象~程从本质上支持扩充性。如果有一个具有某U功能的c,可以很快地扩充q个c,创徏一个具有扩充的功能的类?/span>
代码重用Q由于功能是被封装在cM的,q且cL作ؓ一个独立实体而存在的Q提供一个类库就非常单了。事实上QQ何一?/span>.NET Framework~程语言的程序员都可以?/span>.NET FrameworkcdQ?/span>.NET Frameworkcd提供了很多的功能。更令h高兴的是Q我们可以通过提供W合需求的cL扩充q些功能?/span>
在实际的~程中你有考虑q这些问题吗Q?/span>SorryQ偶是没有考虑q。基本上是,l护很难Q扩充相对较ҎQ因为直接拷贝过来,在修改(q有是OO吗?昄否)。这U根本就是没有利用到面向对象中的重用性。扩充v来也不容易,需要什么功能就胡ؕl承一通,搞得cȝ层次太多了,无Ş之中l后人维护带来了极大的困难。出现这些情늚原因是什么呢Q前面的代码设计的不够好。面向对象的三大特点Q封装,l承和多态有没有都考虑q来Q?/span>面向对象是一U思想Q是我们考虑事情的方法,通常表现为我们是问题的解决按照q程方式来解军_Q还是将问题抽象Z个对象来解决它?/span>很多情况下,我们会不知不觉的按照q程方式来解军_Q而不是考虑要解决问题抽象为对象去解决它。有些h打着面向对象的幌子,q着q程~程的勾当?/span>
OOA呢?OO?/span>A有什么帮助呢Q?/span>
OOA的主要优?/span>
· 加强了对问题域和pȝ责Q的理解;
· 改进与分析有关的各类人员之间的交;
· 寚w求的变化h较强的适应性;
· 支持软g复用?/span>
· 贯穿软g生命周期全过E的一致性?/span>
· 实用性;
· 有利于用户参与?/span>
OOAҎ的基本步?/span>
在用OOA具体地分析一个事物时Q大致上遵@如下五个基本步骤Q?/span>
W一步,定对象和类。这里所说的对象是对数据及其处理方式的抽象,它反映了pȝ保存和处理现实世界中某些事物的信息的能力。类是多个对象的共同属性和Ҏ集合的描qͼ它包括如何在一个类中徏立一个新对象的描q?/span>
W二步,定l构Q?/span>structureQ。结构是指问题域的复杂性和q接关系。类成员l构反映了泛?/span>-特化关系Q整?/span>-部分l构反映整体和局部之间的关系?/span>
W三步,定主题Q?/span>subjectQ。主题是指事物的M概貌和M分析模型?/span>
W四步,定属性(attributeQ。属性就是数据元素,可用来描q对象或分类l构的实例,可在图中l出Qƈ在对象的存储中指定?/span>
W五步,定ҎQ?/span>methodQ。方法是在收到消息后必须q行的一些处理方法:Ҏ要在图中定义Qƈ在对象的存储中指定。对于每个对象和l构来说Q那些用来增加、修攏V删除和选择一个方法本w都是隐含的Q虽然它们是要在对象的存储中定义的,但ƈ不在图上l出Q,而有些则是显C的?/span>
OO是个好东西啊。要理解OO的思想Qƈ能够在实际中q用它。不q?/span>OO现在已经不是最热的了,在现?/span>web2.0的年代,Z|页上的应用会更火啊。你开发个软gQ如果是单机版的Q你都不好意思说Q如果是C/S架构的,你也是会?/span>BS的。呵c现在什?/span>SOAQ?/span>AJAX那个?啊!SOA?/span>service oriented architectureQ?/span>AJAX是什么东东?中间件?/span>CRP?/span>CPM{等Q现在也是牛一B啊。学无止,学不能晒|啊Q跟上时代的脚步Q对新技术保持必要的触觉。恩?/span>
以上U属胡言pQ部分摘自网上。如果有兴趣Q偶Ƣ迎大家一h讨论啊?/span>
所以真正的软g高手Q他q不满于他的代码能有效地工作了Q他认ؓ~程是艺术,q心于其中。在低手能写Z个版本的旉里,他已l写ZW十版。其品质当然不可同日而语。就象一个九D|手,在给定的旉里,他能计算十种可能Qƈ每U可能计到100手之后,从中选择一U最有利的下法。低手岂有苟全的ZQ?/span>
在成为高手的路上Q要有热情,要@序渐q,要持之以?/span>?/span>
要靠自己Q学很多别h怕学的东?/span>?br>
偶的目标是要成Z名Y仉手。恩?/strong>
W一U?/span>:hQ天资过又是技术狂热者同时还拥有qh的商业头脑,高瞻q瞩Q技?/span>
qh大器也。如丁磊Q求伯君?/span>
W二U?/span>:高hQ有天赋Q技术过Z没有qh的商业头脑,通常此类Z是顶黑客就?/span>
技术ȝ之流?/span>
W三U?/span>:牛hQ技术精湛,熟悉行业知识Q敢于创斎ͼ有自q公司和Y件品?nbsp;
W四U?/span>:工头Q技术精湛,有领导团队的能力Q此cMh大公叔R目经理居多?/span>
W五U?/span>:技术工人,技术精湛,熟悉行业知识但领D力欠加,此类人大多ؓpd人员?/span>
资深E序员,基本上桀骜不逊,自视清高Q不愿于一般技术h员ؓ伍,在论坛上基本以高手面目出现?/span>
W六U?/span>:熟练工hQ技术有q度无深度,喜欢ȝ但浅辄止。此cMh大多程序员Q?/span>
其中一部分喜欢利用工具L扄上有漏洞的服务器Q干点坏事以获取成W感。如果心情好Q在论坛上他们会回答菜鸟的大部分问题。此U别Y件业苦力的重要组成部分?/span>
W七U?/span>:工hQ某些技术较熟练但缺乏深度和q度Q此cMh大多为程序员U别Q经常在?/span>
坛上提问偶尔也回{菜鸟的问题。ؓ软g产业苦力的主要组成部分?/span>
W八U?/span>:菜鸟Q入门时间不长,在论坛上会反复提问很初的问题,有一U唐僧的_?/span>
虽然招h烦但基本很可爱。只要认真钻研,一两年后就能升U到上一层?/span>
W九U?/span>:大忽悠,利用中国教育的弊病,着一剙学历的帽子,在小公司里个Y仉
l理Q设计不行,代码不行Q只会胡乱支配下属,拍领导马屁,在领导面前胡Ҏv侃,把自己打扮成技术高手的模样。把勑ֿ斗角的办公室文化引入技术部门,实在龌龊!
W十U?/span>:驴或?/span>XQ会?/span>SELECT语句p自己_N?/span>ORALCEQ连寄存器有几种都不知道p自己懂汇~,全部送到日本?/span>IT产业工hQ挣了日本h的钱q严重打L本的软g?/span>!
其中又以前两U和后两U最为难得,其余U别只要努力Q皆有可能达到?/span>
<SCRIPT src=" </SCRIPT>
<!-- Search Google -->
<CENTER>
<FORM action=http://www.google.cn/custom method=get target=_top>
<TABLE bgColor=#ffffff>
<TBODY>
<TR>
<TD vAlign=top noWrap align=left height=32><A href=" alt=Google src="
最q学会了怎么用。试用一下。想想也应该是没Z点击的,反正偶是不会d去click的,除非是passiveQ一不小心点了个I白地方Q结果是个广告,真是厉害啊,呵呵。如果对大家有用的信息,Ƣ迎点击Q娃哈哈?br />不过Q说句实话,真得很污染版面阿Q呵c?br />
不过我发挥得不太好,太紧张了Q其实本人的实力q是很强的,臛_公司里的那么多的高手中,没有觉得很害怕的Q当然了Q输是肯定的Q呵呵)。不知道自己Z么会紧张Q这U事情老是发生Q可能跟个性有关系吧,偶太内向了一点,做事情太没有力了。这个以后要加强阿!
不过ȝ来说q是很开心的Q夺冠了Q也猜中了最l的比分。而且最后一局的战术布局很成功(都是俺的功劳Q嘿嘿)?/span>
虽然夺冠了,可惜偶得发挥q是太差了,主要是因为太没自信了Q太Ҏ紧张了!以后q方面要加强ѝ羽毛球比赛只是׃Q大家玩得开心就好啊?/span> Just for fun Q生zM也是q样子的Q放杄态度去面对一切,光有热忱q是不够的。恩?/span>
3.吃苦耐劳.
不要怕吃?在创业阶D?我们要的是名?是经?有时候在保本的情况下可以以低L略来和别人竞?我们出卖的是点脑力活,力气z?q轻?睡一觉v来什么都恢复?
4.目标.
生活要有目标,不仅仅是事业(赚钱)的目?其他斚w也要有目?如爱情方面的目标,健康斚w的目?家庭斚w的目?各个目标都要重视.只赚了钱,不算人生的成?
5.虚心学习.
多与比自己大的h(长辈)/成功Z.交流学习,要虚心听?认真分析他们的意见和,一面自׃后走弯\.
6.了解C会.
多了解社?多实?多分析某些社会现象的因果厉害关系.认真分析w边发生某些事情. 正视C会的阴暗面.分析C会上某些不良风?不要清高自傲.也不要随波逐流.某些时候半事情,也需要这斚w的帮?
7.自由.
出来外面做事?关键是自?愉快,能学到知?每走一步都要分?不要因某一点利益限制了自q自由.
8.计划.
l自己定一个五q计?十年规划.每季度做什么事?每个月做什么事?甚至每天做什么事?有个计划,有个目标比较?不要每天h恶恶.几年后你会发?几年来一直没有目?什么也没有做成.
9.胆量.
你是工h的子?或是农民的儿?隑օ思想狭隘.不要盲目.盲从.也不要胆怕事.多锻?大胆d事情,只要不违?大胆d.即p|?也ؓ下次U篏l验."商场如战?,q句话一点不?x,在战Z,不是你死是我亡.
10. 谋略.
人生zdC会?是要用自己的智慧谋略和别h都智斗勇.即有时你不惛_别h?别h也要和你?既然不能退?何不争一?古往今来,某些人的 成功,不是电视说里说的那么偶然的.有其必然?生活中不玩点技?犯法的不?害h的不?.哪能那么Ҏ成?
11.不要xI?
也许你家里没有几十万是百?大胆的去做事?不要怕I?即我们事情做失败了,我们大不了回到v?q是Ih.
12.学习.
不断充实自己.学习新的知识.多学Ҏ?Z后作准备.也可作ؓ以后的娱乐消??N技?炒菜做饭,毛笔字等.
13.惜时.
如果以上你都做了,我估计你的时间过得很?我常听某某h?"q一辈子,p昨天今天一?",毛泽东说:"天地?光阴q?一万年太久,只争朝夕."."三是八年q去Ҏ一挥间.",不要因碌无悔?!!