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銆銆McGinty 甯姪緹庡浗騫挎挱鍏徃鏂伴椈棰戦亾鍋氫竴嬈″疄楠岋紝鐪嬬湅濂充漢涓庣煯涓敺浜虹害浼氱殑鎰忔効濡備綍銆傛垜浠畨鎺掑嚑涓煯涓敺浜虹珯鍦ㄩ珮涓敺浜鴻韓杈廣傜劧鍚庢垜浠涓緇勫コ浜轟粠榪欎簺鐢蜂漢涓寫閫夌害浼氬璞°?br>銆銆To see if the women would go for short guys who were successful, ABCNEWS' Lynn Sherr created extraordinary résumés for the shorter men. She told the women that the shorter men included a doctor, a best-selling author, a champion skier, a venture capitalist who'd made millions by the age of 25.
銆銆涓轟簡媯楠岃繖浜涘コ浜烘槸鍚︿細鍥犱負浜嬩笟鏈夋垚鑰岄夋嫨鐭釜鐢峰瓙錛岀編鍥藉箍鎾叕鍙告柊闂婚閬撶殑Lynn Sherr涓鴻繖浜涚煯涓敺瀛愬埗浣滀簡闈炲嚒鐨勫飽鍘嗐傚ス鍛婅瘔閫夌害浼氬璞＄殑濂充漢浠紝榪欎簺鐭釜鐢蜂漢涓湁鍖葷敓錛屾湁鐣呴攢涔︿綔鑰咃紝婊戦洩鍐犲啗錛岃繕鏈変竴浣?5宀佸氨鎸ｅ埌鍑犵櫨涓囩殑閲戣瀺鎶曡祫浜恒?br>銆銆Nothing worked. The women always chose the tall men. Sherr asked whether there'd be anything she could say that would make the shortest of the men, who was 5 feet, irresistible. One of the women replied, "Maybe the only thing you could say is that the other four are murderers." Another backed her up, saying that had the taller men had a criminal record she might have been swayed to choose a shorter man. Another said she'd have considered the shorter men, if the taller men had been described as "child molesters."
銆銆鐒惰岋紝灞ュ巻娌¤搗浣滅敤錛岃繖浜涘コ浜轟滑浠嶇劧閫変腑浜嗛珮涓瓙鐢峰瓙銆係herr闂ス浠紝鍒板簳瑕佸ス璇翠粈涔堬紝鎵嶈兘浣垮ス浠箟鏃犺繑欏懼湴閫変腑鍏朵腑涓浣嶆渶鐭殑鐢蜂漢錛屼粬鍙湁5鑻卞昂銆備竴浣嶅コ浜哄洖絳旇錛?#8220;闄ら潪浣犺鍏朵粬鍥涗綅鐢蜂漢鏄潃浜虹姱銆?#8221;鍙︿竴浣嶅コ瀛愰檮鍜岃錛屽鏋滈珮涓敺瀛愭湁鐘姜璁板綍錛屽ス鍙互鑰冭檻閫変竴浣嶇◢鐭竴浜涚殑鐢蜂漢銆傝繕鏈変竴浣嶅コ浜鴻錛屽鏋滄湁浜鴻榪欎簺楂樹釜鐢蜂漢鏄?#8220;鍎跨楠氭壈鑰?#8221;錛屽ス鍙互鑰冭檻閫夌煯涓浜涚殑鐢峰瓙銆?br>銆銆The desire for tall men begins very young, apparently. ABCNEWS gave elementary school students a test, asking them to match a small, medium, or large figure of a man with a series of words. The kids overwhelmingly linked the tall figure to the words strong, handsome, and smart. The linked the short figure to the words sad, scared and weak.
銆銆瀵歸珮涓瓙鐨勫笇鏈涙樉鐒跺浜庡绔ャ傜編鍥藉箍鎾叕鍙告柊闂婚閬撳湪灝忓鐢熶腑鍋氫簡涓欏硅瘯楠岋紝瑕佹眰鍚屽浠皢灝忎釜銆佷腑絳夋垨澶т釜鐢蜂漢涓庝竴浜涜瘝姹囩浉鑱旓紝瀛╁瓙浠悍綰峰皢澶т釜鐢峰瓙涓庡己澹佽嫳淇婂拰鑱槑鐩歌仈錛岃屽皢灝忎釜鐢峰瓙涓庢偛鍝銆佹亹鎯у拰琛板急鐩歌仈銆?br>濂充漢鐨勫璨?br>銆銆To conduct an experiment, 20/20 hired actors--some great looking, some not--and put them in situations to gauge how often the "lookers" would get preferential treatment.
銆銆涓轟簡鍋氫竴涓瘯楠岋紝"20/20"鑺傜洰闆囩敤浜嗘紨鍛樸傛湁浜涗漢瀹硅矊鍑轟紬錛屾湁浜涗漢鍗翠笉鏄備絾鎶婃紨鍛樹滑鏀懼湪鐗瑰畾鐜涓嬶紝鐪嬬湅“婕備寒浜?#8221;鏄浣曞父甯稿緱鍒頒紭寰呯殑銆?br>銆銆In the first test, we put two women next to cars without gas in Atlanta. The women wore the same outfit.
銆銆鍦ㄧ涓嬈¤瘯楠屼腑錛屽湪浜氱壒鍏板ぇ錛屾垜浠涓や綅濂蟲紨鍛樼┛鎴翠竴鏍鳳紝鍒嗗埆绔欏湪娌℃湁姹芥補鐨勮濺鏃併?br>銆銆Both Michelle and Tracey stood helplessly by cars with their hoods up. For the average-looking Michelle, a few pedestrians stopped but only made suggestions as where she could walk to get gasoline. But for the beautiful Tracey, cars came screeching to a halt. More than a dozen cars stopped and six people went to get Tracey gas.
銆銆Michelle鍜孴racey寮曟搸緗╂墦寮鐫錛岀粷鏈涙棤鍔╁湴绔欏湪杞︽梺銆傜浉璨屽鉤騫崇殑Michelle鍙兘璁╁嚑浣嶈浜洪┗瓚籌紝浣嗕粬浠篃鍙槸涓哄ス鎸囧嚭濡備綍鍔犳補鐨勮礬錛岃岀編璨孴racey鐨勫緟閬囧嵈澶т笉鐩稿悓銆傝澶氳濺瀛愪負濂圭寷鐒跺埞杞︼紝涓鎵撲互涓婄殑杞︿富鍋滆濺錛?涓漢瑕佷負Tracey鍔犳補銆?br>銆銆The two actresses helped with our second test, at an Atlanta shopping mall where both women set up a table and sold calendars and teddy bears to raise money for charity. Overall, it looked as if both women were doing well with their sales. Then we counted the money and found Tracey collected 50 percent more.
銆銆涓や綅濂蟲紨鍛樺張甯姪鎴戜滑鍋氫簡絎簩涓瘯楠屻傚湪涓瀹朵簹鐗瑰叞澶ц喘鐗╀腑蹇冿紝涓や漢閮借鎽婃厛鍠勪箟鍗栨棩鍘嗗拰鐜╁叿鐔娿備粠琛ㄩ潰涓婄湅錛屽ス浠崠寰椾竴鏍峰ソ錛屽彲鏄暟閽辨椂鍗村彂鐜幫紝Tracey鐨勬敹鍏ヨ楂樺嚭50%銆?br>銆銆What if we tested something requiring qualifications, like getting a job? Looks shouldn't matter then but would they?
銆銆濡傛灉鎴戜滑瀹為獙鏌愪簺闇瑕佽祫鏍肩殑浜嬫儏錛屾瘮濡傚簲鑱橈紝緇撴灉浼氬浣曞憿錛熷璨屼細璧峰埌浠涔堜綔鐢ㄥ憿錛?br>銆銆20/20 hired two women to apply for jobs. The clearest difference between them was looks while they shared similar education and work experience backgrounds. To match them up more closely, we rewrote their résumés to match.
銆銆"20/20"鑺傜洰緇勯泧鐢ㄤ簡涓や綅濂充漢鍙傚姞搴旇仒錛屽ス浠湁鐩鎬技鐨勬暀鑲插拰宸ヤ綔緇忛獙鑳屾櫙錛屼絾瀹硅矊鍗村ぇ涓嶇浉鍚屻備負浜嗕嬌濂逛滑鏇存帴榪戯紝鎴戜滑鏀瑰啓浜嗗ス浠殑灞ュ巻銆?br>銆銆Donia, our more attractive female applicant, and her counterpart, Amy, both had been secretaries and saleswomen. A consultant trained them so their behavior matched.
銆銆Donia鏄垜浠潪甯歌糠浜虹殑濂蟲眰鑱岃咃紝涓庡ス鎼。鐨凙my錛屼袱浜洪兘鏇懼綋榪囩涔﹀拰閿鍞漢鍛樸備竴浣嶉【闂笓闂ㄥ濂逛滑榪涜浜嗚緇冿紝浣垮ス浠殑涓炬鐩稿悓銆?br>銆銆Hidden cameras captured interviewers being warmer and friendlier to the better looking applicants and being less friendly to the other applicants. With Amy and Donia, for example, one job interviewer told Amy employees got a 45-minute lunch break but with Donia the interviewer said there was a flexible policy about lunch. Who got the job offer? Donia. Amy never even got a call back.
銆銆鏆楄棌鐨勬憚鍍忔満鎹曡幏浜嗕富鑱樹漢鍛樺鐩歌矊濂界湅鐨勫簲鑱樿呭崄鍒嗙儹鎯呭拰鍙嬪ソ錛岃屽鍏跺畠搴斿緛鑰呭垯涓嶅弸濂姐備緥濡傦紝鎷涜仒浜哄憳瀵笰my璇達紝闆囧憳鍙湁45鍒嗛挓鍗堥キ浼戞伅鏃墮棿錛岃屽嵈瀵笵onia璇達紝鍗堥キ鏃墮棿鏄湁寮規х殑銆傝皝寰楀埌宸ヤ綔浜嗭紵褰撶劧鏄疍onia銆侫my鍒欏啀涔熸病鏈夋帴鍒板洖澶嶇數璇濄?br>銆銆"It's a non-conscious process," said Tom Cash, a psychologist at Old Dominion University. "They assume that more attractive people have an array of valued characteristics."
銆銆Old Dominion澶у鐨勫績鐞嗗瀹禩om Cash璇達細“榪欐槸涓涓棤鎰忚瘑鐨勮繃紼嬶紝浠栦滑鎺ㄦ祴婕備寒鐨勪漢鏈夋洿澶氬瘜鏈変環鍊肩殑鍝佽川銆?#8221;
銆銆We should add the bias of "lookism" to sexism and racism. It's just as bad but we don't need a federal program.
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We can never get it from working for it directly. It comes, like happiness, to those who are aiming at something higher. It’s a byproduct of great, simple living. The joy of living comes from what we put into our living, not from what we seek to get from it.
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Last year, at least 400,000 Americans managed to kill themselves based almost solely on what they ate. Heart disease is the country's number one killer and, while some of that comes from genetics, most of it's due to the fat-laden, sugar-heavy junk we put in our bodies.
2. Smoke
Tobacco-related illnesses are America's number two killer, and the most preventable. Just one cigarette will immediately increase your blood pressure and decrease the circulation to your extremities.
3. Watch TV
Not only is television entertaining, it can keep us on the couch for hours at a time several days per week. The average American spends a full 9 years of his life glued to the boob tube, years that could otherwise be spent exercising.
4. Stress Out
Creating more stress in your life is a great way to invite all kinds of diseases to attack the body. When you're chronically stressed, the adrenal glands are forced to work overtime and eventually exhaust themselves, inhibiting the immune system.
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5. Drink a Lot
The occasional drink of alcohol, especially wine, can be beneficial to your health, many studies suggest. But if you're looking to do yourself in, overdo the two-drink-per-day limit and imbibe heartily. Besides alcoholism of course, too much booze causes liver damage, diabetes and is the root cause of nearly 100,000 deaths per year.
6. Drive a Lot
If people wanted to increase their chance of surviving 'til a ripe old age, they'd fly everywhere. Driving kills more people aged 1 to 35 than anything else, a statistic that could drop to near zero if everyone just stayed home.
7. Dumb Down Your Brain
Alzheimer’s, the degenerative brain disease attacks almost everyone who lives long enough, though mind games and puzzles are known to ward off the effects.
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8. Ignore the Doctor
It's a good tactic if early disease detection and important medical consultation are going to get in the way of your Tommy Lee lifestyle.
9. Sacrifice Sleep
Inadequate sleep (less than 7 or 8 hours a night) has been tied to many different health problems, including obesity, diabetes and cancer. Mental fatigue is also as big of a risk factor for vehicular accidents as alcohol.
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Once learning stops, vegetation sets in. It is a common fallacy to regard school as the only workshop for the acquisition of knowledge. On the contrary, learning should be a never-ending process, from the cradle to the grave. With the world ever changing so fast, the cease from learning for just a few days will make a person lag behind. What's worse, the animalistic instinct dormant deep in our subconsciousness will come to life, weakening our will to pursue our noble ideal, sapping our determination to sweep away obstacles to our success and strangling our desire for the refinement of our character. Lack of learning will inevitably lead to the stagnation of the mind, or even worse, its fossilization, Therefore, to stay mentally young, we have to take learning as a lifelong career.
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Just for today I will be happy. This assumes to be true what Abraham Lincoln said, that "Most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be."
Just for today I will adjust myself to what is, and not try to adjust everything to my own desires. I will take my "luck" as it comes.
灝變負浜嗕粖澶╋紝鎴戜細鍋氳嚜鎴戣皟鏁撮傚簲浜嬬墿鏈潵鐨勯潰鐩紝鑰屼笉鏄兂鏂硅娉曚嬌姣忎竴浠朵簨婊¤凍鑷繁鐨勬鏈涖傚綋鏈轟細鏉ヤ復鐨勬椂鍊欐垜浼氭姄浣忓畠銆?br>
Just for today I will try to strengthen my mind. I will study. I will learn something useful. I will not be a mental loafer. I will read something that requires effort, thought and concentration.
Just for today I will exercise my soul in three ways. I will do somebody a good turn and not get found out: If anybody knows of it, it will not count. I will do at least two things I don't want to do-just for exercise. I will not show anyone that my feelings are hurt: they may be hurt, but today I will not show it.
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Just for today I will be agreeable. I will look as well as I can, dress becomingly, talk low, act courteously, criticize not one bit, and try not to improve or regulate anybody but myself.
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Just for today I will have a program, I may not follow it exactly, but I will have it. I will save myself from two pests: hurry and indecision.
Just for today I will have a quiet half hour all by myself and relax. During this half hour, sometime, I will try to get a better perspective of my life.
Just for today I will be unafraid. Especially I will not be afraid to enjoy what is beautiful, and to believe that as I give to the world, so the world will give to me.
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When senior Australian government ministers recently visited Iraq, their country's soldiers urged the government not to abandon Iraqi employees when Canberra withdraws its combat units later this year.
婢沖ぇ鍒╀簹鏀垮簻楂樼駭鍐呴榿鎴愬憳鏈榪戣闂紛鎷夊厠鐨勬椂鍊欙紝婢沖ぇ鍒╀簹鍐涗漢淇冭鏀垮簻鍦ㄥ牚鍩規媺浠婂勾鏅氫簺鏃跺欏皢閮ㄩ槦鎾ゅ洖婢沖ぇ鍒╀簹鐨勬椂鍊欙紝涓嶈緗紛鎷夊厠闆囧憳浜庝笉欏俱?br>
Defense Minister Joel Fitzgibbon has acknowledged that Iraqis may face danger because they work for the Australian forces in the south of the country. He says some have been targeted by insurgents.
婢沖ぇ鍒╀簹鍥介槻閮ㄩ暱涔斿皵.鑿茶尐鍚夋湰鎵胯錛屼紛鎷夊厠浜哄彲鑳介潰涓村嵄闄╋紝鍥犱負浠栦滑鍦ㄤ紛鎷夊厠鍗楅儴涓烘境澶у埄浜氬啗闃熸湇鍔°備粬浠竴浜涗漢鏇劇粡鎴愪負鍙嶅彌浠藉瓙琚嚮鐨勭洰鏍囥?br>
Fitzgibbon says all locally hired employees and their families will be eligible to settle in Australia.
鑿茶尐鍚夋湰璇達紝鎵鏈夊湪褰撳湴寰佸彫鐨勯泧鍛樺拰浠栦滑鐨勫灞為兘浼氬悎娉曞湪婢沖ぇ鍒╀簹瀹氬眳銆?
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